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The No. 1 Fastest Way to Make New -Rich - Hot - Friends
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Dear buddy,
Last email, I sent you a vid that told you the story of splitting a villa in Bali with some friends and how to do that kind of thing with cool people.
If you didn’t see that one it’s here. Been uploading ton of stuff on this YT, go subscribe, comment, enage. i’m hyper active on it.
So that vid covered one really fast way to make friends - that is - to organize a trip, and invite cool people.
Today, I want to share with you an even faster way…
Specifically, I’m going to break down how I got 150 of the coolest, highest level people in an entire country into 1 room where I was the center piece of attention and everybody was trying to give me value.
Sound powerful? Yes. Indeed.
It was TRIBE framework in action - specifically the “I”: Invite.
Let me take you behind the scenes.
Now - before we go into this, if you are someone who dreams of having a Tribe, that is, a friend group of high level, high net worth men & amazing women who genuinely have your back - who celebrate your wins without jealousy, and women who genuinely respect and admire you….
… if you dream of a tribe of friends who support your wildest visions - as opposed to everyone else thinking you're crazy...
… if you dream of making friends who you can talk to about anything – your projects, your dreams, women, life philosophy, even weird, crazy conspiratorial ideas – without judgment…
…Friends who'll fly across the world to hangout on a whim. Who introduce you to opportunities before they hit the market. Who become family…
…Then I implore you to book a free definition / discovery call with my team.
On this call we’ll 1 on 1, for free, help you define any bottlenecks you’re having in your social life and friend group, and then help you map out with clarity the exact dream you have for your social life. Definition is key if you want to actually get results. You need to know what is wrong, and what your dream is with clear vision - and that’s waht this call has done for 800+ people, and you should be next… why not you? who else? it’s free, go!
Okay - once you’ve booked that in, continue on here..
have you booked yet? wyd? okay, good now read:
So because I’m a master of Tribe pricniples, and know how to build out elite connections quickly from scratch anywhere in the world with minimal resources… I first started with the vision of a party with all these high level people i wanted to meet all in one place.
And just 4 days before the actual date of the party, an idea dropped in. I had been staying at a $50k/month villa with some friends. Massive place. Movie theater. We even shipped in 5 standing desks for me and my millionnaire ecom homies I was splitting the place with to work at during the day.

the villa

The villas was absolutely massive as you can see, many layers
So this is obvously a hot start… what if i told you that I basically accidentally found myself in this villa?
Like - Funny thing was, I wasn’t even supposed to be invited.
I only knew one of the five millionnaire guys who had rented it - my buddy Roma, who I’d met years earlier. We had been connected through Instagram over the years and he had posted that there was an open room in their villa, so I just msg’d him and snagged the spot for the month on a whim.
30 days in a james bond / batman kinda compound? No brainer.
I saw the space and knew immediately-it was made for a crazy 8AM party with all of the coolest people in all of Bali in 1 room.

The movie theatre at the compound
So a few days after being there, I designed a flyer in like 10 min using Chat GPT. Simple, cool, on-brand. Custom 8AM coconuts were ordered. Chloe, my girlfriend, handled the logistics like a Swiss Army knife. DJ equipment - Booked. Bartenders - Handled. Lighting and sound engineers - schedule in.

We even found Anna, the “hat lady” - a local Balinese woman with a handmade hat business. We set her up at the party - Not just to sell funky hats, but to create spectacle. Every great event needs something unexpected and something you remember it by…

Anna, the hat lady
For some parties, it’s a magician. For others, it’s a live painter. Ours was Anna and her woven masterpieces. Guests wore them all night, and still wear them today remembering the night every time they wear it....
Plus - anna made a ton of sales. We supported the indonesian culture. Win-win.
Now you might be wondering how did we get 150 people to come to a party in a foreign country?
Well - The guest list was totally organic.
All I really did was message one guy - who is known as being highly connected in bali. And he said, “How many people do you want? I could bring 100.” And he did. The right kind of people. The ones who don’t ask what the WiFi code is until after they’ve jumped in the pool. Fun people. Vibes.
Of course there were also a lot of people who came who knew me from my brand and wanted to hear my music live. Altogether tho, the guest list was incredible. And the value of the friends I made because of this are hard to put into words.
One guy, Shayden, had recognized me at a pool in uluwatu earlier that week and had introduced himself - he came to the party. Turns out, he owns land in Bali and runs a YouTube channel with millions of views on van conversions. He ended up inviting me to stay at his villa in Bali for the next year with 5 other millionnaire entrepreneurs. I’m not sure i have the capacity / roadmap to base in bali right now… but that offer was amazing.
Another guy-Oscar-showed up, had a blast w him, and the next day he offered me a full YouTube strategy session. Get this - This guy had 1.5M subs and YouTube actually pays him to teach people YouTube algo stuff, and people pay him $20K+ for 1:1 consulting.
Several other guys building multi million dollar projects in Bali - asked me to be involved with their projects, and to DJ their events. It was an insane night of meeting powerful people all in one place.
I didn’t even ask for anything. These guys all just offered me stuff. Because they had a good time at my event.
That’s what I mean when I talk about social capital having an ROI.
The party cost ~$3,000 for the food, DJ stuff, security, etc.
It gave me:
New friends across 10+ countries
Hours of viral video content (one of my vids got 10mil views)
A one-on-one with a YouTube genius ($20k value)
Business connections for years
And memories I’ll keep for life
This is what happens when you follow T.R.I.B.E to a T…
So - if you’ve ever said,
“I just need the right people around me...”
I think it’s safe to say, this is your sign to stop waiting.
If you’re a digital nomad, entrepreneur, creator - and you’re ready to elevate your network, your friendships, your life…
Come build with us! What u waiting for buddy
👉 Apply for Tribe Accelerator and get free discovery / definition session with my team.
We’ll teach you how to build a high-level social world from the ground up. One where people show up for you and dump value on your lap. book the call!
See you on the inside,
- Arlin
PS - here’s the video breakdown here…